Funerals are solemn occasions where respect and sensitivity are paramount. While it can sometimes be tricky to navigate the appropriate attire, there are certain fashion faux pas that you absolutely want to avoid.
So I’ve compiled a guide to help you steer clear of the most disrespectful funeral outfit choices. Additionally, I will also recommend what you should wear instead. So let’s get to it!
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1. Bright Colors and Loud Patterns
Why It’s Disrespectful:
As well all know, funerals are not the time to make a bold fashion statement. So this is a big no no.
And that is because anything with bright colors or loud patterns can be very distracting and may also come across as insensitive during such a somber event.
The last thing that one should be is disrespecting the purpose of the occasion.
What To Wear Instead:
> Top | > Blazer | > Pants | > Bag | > Shoes | > Earrings
Do go for muted and dark colors like black, navy, or gray. These are traditional colors that’ll convey the respect and solemnity needed for this occasion.
Do this, and you’re golden.
2. Casual Attire
Why It’s Disrespectful:
Just imagine someone showing up in jeans, t-shirts or sneakers. On the one hand, it’ll make it seem that the person didn’t put any effort into their appearance.
On the other, this can be interpreted as a lack of respect for the deceased and their family.
What to Wear Instead:
> Shirt | > Pants | > Bag | > Earrings | > Shoes
Go for business casual or formal attire. Think of this, anything you’d would wear to a job interview or a formal meeting is a great place to start.
You can never go wrong with collared button down shirts in black and dark grey colors. Make sure it’s plain and has no over the top adornments on them.
3. Revealing Clothing
Why It’s Disrespectful:
This goes without saying, but funerals are not the place for revealing or provocative clothing.
And this includes clothing like short skirts, ultra low-cut tops and anything too tight or sheer. Anything that reveals too much skin can be considered disrespectful.
What to Wear Instead:
> Blouse | > Skirt | > Bag | > Earrings | > Shoes
Choose modest and conservative clothing. If you’re going for a dress or skirt, it should be at least knee-length or longer, and tops should not have a super low neckline.
I personally like V tops, and I think it can work provided that the neckline does not go much lower than the collarbones.
Also, choose jewellery that are not too shiny or too bulky. Always go for ones that are minimal and delicate.
4. Graphic Tees and Logos
Why It’s Disrespectful:
I think graphic tees with logos on them are low-key one of the top clothings anyone should avoid.
That’s because wearing clothing with large logos, graphics, or text on them can be very distracting and disrespectful, much like bright colored clothing. Plus, it just draws attention for all the wrong reasons.
So one should just leave them at home.
What to Wear Instead:
> Blouse | > Skirt | > Bag | > Earrings | > Shoes
Stick to plain, unadorned clothing. If you’re wearing a shirt, make sure it’s solid-colored or at the very least, has a very subtle pattern.
I personally think that ribbed black tees are still acceptable as long as it doesn’t have a loose neckline, cropped above the waistline or is loose-fitting.
And I like it because it’s comfortable and breathable.
So if you’re considering wearing a tee shirt, this would be a good option to keep in consideration.
5. Athletic Wear
Why It’s Disrespectful:
Athletic wear such as yoga pants, sweatshirts and running shoes, is definitely far too casual for a funeral. Nothing screams more disrespectful than showing up in yoga pants.
In fact, it signals that the person doesn’t even consider the event important enough to dress appropriately.
If I were to see someone dressed up like that, I will see to it myself by leading this person out of the venue and not letting them in until they’ve sorted out their closet disaster.
What to Wear Instead:
> Shirt | > Pants | > Bag | > Earrings | > Shoes
Always think formal and polished. Even if you don’t own a suit, dress in the most formal clothes you have. And it would not hurt to get formal clothes for the occasion.
An outfit consisting of a classic black button down and an elegant pair of black pants is sufficient.
You can also wear them anywhere and anytime in the future.
Conclusion:
In conclusion, attending a funeral is an occasion where respect and sensitivity are of absolute importance. From my perspective, choosing appropriate attire not only honors the deceased but also shows compassion towards grieving loved ones.
By avoiding the disrespectful choices highlighted in this article and opting instead for modest, dark-colored clothing, I believe we can express our condolences thoughtfully and respectfully. Let us remember that our attire at such events speaks volumes about our empathy and understanding during a time of loss.
